Wanting v getting - Law of Attraction

Blog 11.07.2010 Wanting v getting – Law of attraction

You attract what you feel. If you continually say affirmations about being wealthy you are actually in a state of want. You feel lack, obviously, hence the affirmation. This state of want is then sent back to you in the form of no money. You attracted the want, the feeling of needing more money, right back to you. This message is being channelled more and more to the world so that we can fully understand the law of attraction.

The best way of dealing with want is not to want at all but quite frankly I think this is an impossible task. The world is set up where everything is about want. You can’t escape it. Ask your higher self, your angels, for the ability to have trust and faith in becoming more self aware and to understand the big picture. Ask to be able to feel wealthy and not fear lack. Be grateful for everything, the universe really loves gratitude; it returns that feeling in all sorts of nice ways.

Feeling successful is more productive and yields more successful results than feeling lack and worry. So do baby steps. Stop wanting to win lotto and start feeling wealthy about the small things. Say thank you and appreciate all the things you do have already. Give to others freely and with no expectations. Be generous. It’s a shift in attitude which may bring about more happiness and reflect success (and wealth) right back. Generous spirit = generous universe.

Our feelings come from our belief system; our belief system comes from our continuous thoughts which usually come from others, starting from childhood. Don’t let someone else think for you, whether it be your parents or your spouses, anyone. If you believe you are ugly because a parent repeatedly told you so (maybe not even in words) then change that belief system by changing your thoughts. Your constant positive thoughts about yourself will turn into feelings. This is where an affirmation is helpful.

There is nothing wrong in wishing for wonderful things to come to you. Energy is created through thought so keep your wishes and thoughts positive and loving. Wishing (and/or visualization) + feeling successful is a pretty good start on the positive energy road to being happy. Again baby steps if necessary. For example, if you are feeling depressed and usually have trouble getting out of bed. Managing to get out of bed is a success! Build on this.

The beliefs we have about ourselves are the reasons why so many relationships with others end up on the scrap heap. We haven’t dealt with ourselves first, we haven’t looked at our own feelings of low self esteem and inadequacy or whatever. So we attract people who also feel that way about themselves and a pattern is set up. If you find your relationships tend to end the same way, look to yourself to see what is so similar (maybe at a deep level) to that person. The person you have attracted is reflecting you, or at least a part of you. I think that sometimes when we have periods of being alone the universe is helping us to look inward, to sort out ourselves so that a happier relationship can then occur.

Truly love yourself, your struggles and trials, at least try, and then someone who is also trying to love themselves will be attracted to you. No one else can make you happy. We put a huge burden onto another person if we don’t take responsibility for ourselves. Giving all that power to some one else, the power to make you happy, is not going to work, as others can’t make you happy all the time, so when we feel miserable, we blame them for our unhappiness. We make the choices to change our lives. Look to yourself and do not give anyone else that incredible power – give that power to be happy to you. No matter what happens with the other person, that core of happiness cannot be taken away.
Blessings
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Thou shalt not kill (FULL STOP)
Thou shalt not want (FULL STOP)

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