Cutting the Psychic Ties

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Blog 27.07.2010 Cutting the psychic ties.
Over the years many clients have come to me because of a relationship breakup. Coming out of a relationship one needs to cut the psychic ties with the now ex. There is a grieving process to go through when a relationship ends, especially a long term one. It is not only the grief felt for the loss of the loved one it is also the grief for the loss of the future that you dreamed of having together.

First and foremost nurture yourself. Don’t be upset with yourself for not being able to let go like you know you should, or to move forward or get out there like everyone tells you to. Take time to heal, get some Reiki or spiritual healing and cleanse and balance your chakras. (I’ve talked about chakras in previous blogs). Forgive the person who has caused you hurt and accept that it is over.

Heartache is very real and your heart does actually hurt. You do get over heartache but to help things along a little a meditation to help cut the psychic ties is a good way to help your heart heal. When you have been very close with someone your emotional bodies sort of blend together and even though you have broken up these emotional bodies can be still connected. Sometimes the other person, even though they have instigated the breakup, can want to stay connected to you at some level. They usually have their own emotional problems and still want to “use” your feelings of love to make themselves feel good. They are usually not even aware that they are doing this but if someone keeps wanting to ‘touch base’ to see how you are doing they usually want to be reassured that they are still loveable. The weakened tie is made strong again by a single phone call or text. It’s not fair because that opens the wounds again and you have to start getting over them again. If it’s over, it’s over and it really is best for no more contact so you can heal. It is more difficult, of course, when there are children involved but no matter what don’t turn into their counsellor.

Your intention to heal and move on can be helped with this simple meditation. If you have trouble with meditation then simply sit quietly and imagine the following. Close your eyes and breath deeply for a while.
Enter an imaginary hall or room, whatever makes you feel comfortable and in charge. Ask your angels to be with you and help you. Remember your imagination is the tool with which your spirit family can pop in thoughts and ideas to help you.
See the person with whom you have split and have a psychic conversation with them. Tell them all the things that you haven’t been able to for what ever reason and inform them that you are cutting the psychic ties with them. In your mind’s eye see what is connecting you. Some people see a tube or rope and some see things like a mist. They can be connected to any part of you and some people see many ties. Whatever they look like or how many there are you need to cut them. So now you can use a sword (ask Archangel Michael to use his sword) or a chainsaw, whatever it takes to cut the tie/s. I have had some people use laser beams and someone actually visualised acid! I thought that was a bit much but hey, you sometimes need to use something really strong to emphasise how strong your emotions are.
When you have cut all ties and feel a disconnection then seal any holes in your aura by filling them with light. Feel bright white light and universal love beaming on you both and say: Goodbye..(name)...... I cut the psychic ties with you and send you on your way in peace... Then turn around and without looking back walk out of the door and into the sunshine. When I walk people through this meditation many of them cry at this point of the release. It is very emotional but it really helps. Do this exercise every night for at least 2 weeks and usually at the end of this time when you go into the hall and see the ties they should be like ribbons and can be cut with scissors. This intention to move on really does help to heal the hurt.
Good luck and remember you are a perfect and divine child of the universe and as the saying goes, when one door shuts the universe opens another, more suitable, door for you.
Blessings to you and always be kind to yourself and others,
Colette